17-09-2014, 19:47
jazzboCR Wrote:I second the motion. It sounds like you are all early in your careers and some lumps and bumps are to be expected. This however is wholesale theft of your current dream and emotionally, you and your guy are miles ahead of them. Gather your next band slowly, making sure you all have the same or nearly the same goals. With talent, fortitude and smarts, you will make it; those others will get washed away in the tide (I was gonna put that more crudely but a second-thought prevailed.). I'd also scout up some older musicians of whatever genre to talk about this and other career stuff. The right ones will be empathic and give you solid advice, I should think. You are not alone and you will prevail. You may find these trouble this early to be a bonus--better now than when you are more established and the wrenching changes come harder.
I'm somewhere between genius and idiot so take this for what it's worth. Best of luck/skill going forward.
Haha thank you!^^
It is true, I feel that it's better we found out their true colors before we're deeply engaged in the band. But walking away would also mean discarding our compositions(the ones we made together).
We're always trying to find ways on how to improve the band not only musically but it's so hard to find people who would be willing to give advice or guidance.