17-09-2014, 19:28
Jerome Wrote:Walk away from the band. If the rest of the band value your input and contribution to the band they will follow you in time. If they don't, they won't and then you will be free to pursue other avenues. Sounds like your bass player needs to grow up.
I really just want to walk away, but I'm still in this because of my boyfriend. He doesn't really want to go through all the trouble of looking for other musicians and starting all over again. I understand that it isn't easy to find musicians especially where we are situated now(North of France, close to the English channel, where most people love heavy metal or classic rock, not like there's something wrong with it. It's just not the genre we play)
I couldn't agree more, our bass player always wants to dominate every member of the band but in turn he's the one being dominated by his girlfriend!